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It’s always natural after a breakup to want your ex back. It’s human nature to crave what we can’t have, but what you should ask yourself is, are they the one for you? Your ex is seeing somebody else now; does this mean they still want you? Love doesn’t just disappear over night, so just because they’re seeing somebody else, does not mean they don’t still want you. Yes, it’s hard to grasp at first but it’s true. You can still get your ex back if they’re seeing someone else, fact! Can I get my ex back if they are asking for more space?
It may sound strange to think that you can get your ex back just by giving them space, BUT you can! You see, when your ex asks for space, he/she is asking for time to heal and work through things alone. They are also testing you to see if you will change and become the person they desire in the meanwhile; THUS space is probably the best thing you could ever give your ex. Therefore, if your ex is asking for space, you SHOULD give them space; BUT in the meanwhile that doesn’t mean that there aren’t things you can’t do to win them back! It is the effects of that really terrible argument that you had that is making you feel as if you will never get your ex back.
You will have negative thoughts right now – the fight you had was negative, the fact that that made your relationship end is negative, so of course you will be feeling negative. However, you must that these negative feelings will pass with time, and you WILL start feeling more positive, and more capable of dealing with your situation. Until then though, just leave your ex alone to figure out his/her own feelings. All that will happen if you see each other now is yet another major argument.
The effects of the break up are long gone, and both you and your ex are properly over the pain and anger you were feeling. Now the loving feelings you have for each other are back again – the perfect time to get your ex back.